Is he into me, using me, playing games w me or has a girlfriend??

I've been seeing this guy for almost 3 months now, but I'm not sure if he's into me or he's just using me. He has a crush on me since I was a freshmen in college. I'm now a sophmore and he's a junior. He's really not my type of guy. He had been asking for my ph number for awhile but I never gave it to him. I'm a math tutor, one day he just showed up for me to tutor him, I was surprised b/c I mean he's a junior why would a junior want a math tutor from a sophmore? so I asked him why and he said he has to be creative and hoping for me to call him back. I thought it was cute, since then we've been talking to get to know each other. We are now talking like a couple calling each other hunny, talking on the phone for hours, texting here and there, hanging out between classes, after classes, at my dorm, but we haven't really hung out on the weekend or at his house. He lives 30 mnts from campus with his parents. At first I thought maybe he didn't want his parents to know me yet because maybe it's too soon too serious, and whenever I ask him to hang out on the weekend he always says he has something to do either hang out w his friends or w his family. Also every Saturday he doesn't answer his phone and never returns any of my ph call. So I have all this questions that I've battling with my own thoughts, and I can't figure out what it is, I really need your help and opinion on this please..





1. Is he into me? I asked him before and he said if he doesn't like talking or seeing me he wouldn't even bother to do anything at all.





2. Is he using me? If he's just using me he could've just sleep w me as many times as he wants and never bother to do any of those stuff that I mentioned before.





3. Does he has a girlfriend? We've talked about our exes but he'd never mentioned about having a girlfriend. I've asked him before during our conversation but he never gave me an answer so I don't know what that means and the convo was getting akward after that so I changed the subject which I shouldn't, I don't know if I want to bring it up again b/c I don't want him to think that I'm being paranoid.





I thank you very much for your opinion and answers, as you can see I need help on this situation...thanks again guys..

Is he into me, using me, playing games w me or has a girlfriend??
to me i dont think so i have asked for a girls number and yes i never got it but i never gave up like your friend and i tried and tried but then me and that girl are good friends oh yeah and maybe he might not want u to meet his parents because maybe he is not ready yet for that
Reply:from what it sounds like,i don't think he's using you as for being into you i would say yes but to what extent i don't know just ask him what he does on the weekends and that you would like to meet his family or just ask at what point he thinks you two are in terms of a relationship how serious and what not,good luck-oh and do not listen to danielle you follow him to his house or just drop off announced for a first time visit to his house you may scare him off
Reply:The reality is he's not available on Saturday nights. He may just think of you as a good friend? But without the Saturday night date, you are not on the top of his list. If he was really interested, he'd find a way to be with you on the weekend.





It's gotta be hard since you enjoy him during the week. I don't know how you can keep your emotions from getting too excited about him, but I think that's your only choice here.
Reply:maybe u need to follow him. u are not being paranoid either. this is normal. surprise him go to his parents house on a holiday.
Reply:You maybe moving too fast for him. Just take things one day at a time if the time is right he will let you meet his parents. He tried so hard to win you and succeeded, he really thinks the world of you or then you wouldnt be at the place you are now just take it easy he does care for you. I am sure of this.
Reply:Is he into you? oh yes. He could be. I mean he's right. He is texting you, hanging out with you between classes, after classes, the ''whole'' 9 yards. ((not really)) Is he using you? Could be. I mean you seem to have it figured out. That he could be able to sleep with you as many times as he'd like. Does he have a girlfriend? I mean you said so yourself that you've asked him but that the conversation got awkward after that so you just changed the subject. Well, you see it could be that he's seeing someone but it's just not serious. In his head he may have been thinking..."well technically i dont have a girlfriend, but i am talking to someone" or it could simply be an ex who's lingering and he can't let go of. Who knows. but you shouldn't settle for any reason. You didn't pay any mind to him before and now suddenly you have. Anyways, word of advice to you, do what you did before...don't pay any mind to him. Don't call him, or reply his texts. Have him come around and look for you. If he decides to up and ask why you're not calling him...that should be enough to tell you that he's simply seeking attention. You have the answers to the questions you're asking, you're simply seeking reassurance. Trust your gut, you already know that women are naturally intuitive. Good luck.