Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Please Help!!! My Best Friend needs Help?

My best friend lives with her grandparents, and they're trating her like crap. Her grandma out of the blue just decided that her and her boyfriend need to break up, so she called him up and did, took away her birthday puppy, hamster, and cat. She loves her animals an she didnt do anything wrong. They said it was because she got a C in algebra, but they wont let her get a tutor. Today her grandma pulled her by the hair and was hurting her because she didnt jump right in. I wanted to run over and save her, but what can I do, im just a kid. I try to comfort her at school, but I want to do more. What can I do?

Please Help!!! My Best Friend needs Help?
I believe you are doing what you can by being her friend,allowing her to vent,and supporting her emotionally.If there is suspected family violence and proof physically,the next step is to go to your school counselor and share what is going on.I'm not sure of how old either of you are, so I'm not sure why her grandparents are deciding the fate of her love life,but suspect that it is for her well being at the time.The only thing you can do is to let your friend know you are always there for her,let her know her secrets and what is shared between you is safe with you always.Never betray her confidence to you unless her life is at risk.
Reply:that grandma/pa's are not good. you should try to get her away from them. or video tape their grandparents treating like craps. and show it to like the police or something and you should invite your friend home and make her feel better Report It

Reply:Call child protective services....Tell them what the grandparents are doing to her is abusive....
Reply:All you can do is try to help her with algebra (if possible), but otherwise keep doing what you're doing.

pansy

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